Living at the end of the world can sometimes make you feel very lonely.. Of course living besides beach and a beautiful nature is definitely fun but you still miss your loved ones... and specially after marriage one tends to miss their parents a lot..
I live in New Zealand (its almost like living in the end of the world!!), a beautiful country with lovely people.. its been 3 months and I yearn to see my parents and my sister more than anyone.. I yearn to smell the morning filter coffee.. I yearn those squeal of laughter's and tiny pillow fights with my sister.. I yearn those Saravana Bhavan Idlies, Sambhar and Vadais at weekend.. those pani-puri competition with my sister.. those short trips to my perimas house to gulp down the special dishes which she makes with so much love (My perima is an excellent chef and she will call immediately to invite us when she prepares something special ).. those long night chats with my appa during weekend where we both make fun of my sister...those temple visits (there are hardly any temples here and it has been ages since I have done my proper prayer in Kovil).. those festival seasons, we used to have a blast with our cousins in our grandparents place.. those aashirvadhams from elders just to get those 10-20 Rs...those little fights with my sister for choosing new dress during festivals(both wish to wear the same dress at the same time!!)...those were days..those were beautiful memories, which I wish to go back and just hold it with me...
Missing all these small happiness can be very tough but not when you get such a best partner in your life. Probably I am very lucky ( and tough luck for my husband to get me as wife!) to get such a wonderful person. He never made me feel I am missing my family.. He takes care of me just like my mother and loves me more than any one could have!!
I am silly and crazy sometimes.. I sometimes cook like a disaster.. and when I am down with a fever, I make his life miserable demanding everything and making him do all household chores. Never does he complains.. never does he gets pissed off. He just smiles looking deep in my eyes and whispers "anything for you, wifi". From the time of marriage till now I have always been fascinated living with him.. I get to know him more each day.. be it his patience (he would be patient only with me.. not with others!), his intelligence, his dedication.. his craziness.. his childish behavior.. his bursting wittiness (when ever we have an argument, he corners me with his wittiness that I get stuck with words!).. and his super cuteness ( those dimples in his cheeks, any girl would die for!). I somehow feel he looks more adorable when he wakes.. his imperfect hair with a grin in a face and pleadingly asking "coffee please" with half sleep.. Awww..... I just love to see this every morning, so I purposely delay his morning coffee!! The best part is when we have fights.. we both keep a stern angry face and try to think of something to scold and suddenly burst up laughing.. ha ha ha..time just fades and we both lose track of time with each other's company and our chemistry works so well that we can understand each other just by exchanging looks!
All those missing moments which I yearned for, are slowly transformed by his hugs.. his smiles.. his mokka jokes to bring smile in my face..his fights (and later he tries to convice me).. his childish looks and just being with him.. and actually live with him daily!!
I just love everything in him not only because of what he is but also because of the way he takes care of me.. I see my parents in him! I feel that He is the best thing ever to have happened to me!! Thank you so much for choosing me as your life partner (by the way I still remember that you took 3 days to say "yes" to me!! ).
On his special birthday (special because its his first birthday after our marriage!). I would pray god that he should have a healthy and smiling life ahead with lots of love and laughter.. I know for sure that I would not be able to shower him as much love as he gives me.. but I promise to keep you very happy, love you all my life and make your life as miserable with tight hugs.. and yea.. I would try to stop those stupid things which irritate you.
Coz' you are my everything and I am your everything.. and we both live in our own world!
With lot of hugs and kisses,
To my Hrithik Roshan,
From your crazy wifi!!!
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